#014: Drop a "Really Bomb"


Hey, đź‘‹ Scott from The Sales Mastermind here.

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Anything a seller says is a bald-faced lie. Anything a buyer says is God’s honest truth.

There is some truth there. A seller is motivated to sell rather than tell the truth. A buyer is motivated to solve a problem rather than buy something.

As this human psychology runs deep, sellers can either take advantage of it or be taken advantage of.


Customer Service

Imagine a flyer waiting at the baggage claim after a long, tiring flight.

And, our flyer’s bag doesn’t appear on the carousel.

So they wander over to the customer service desk.

The service rep has two options:

Underreact: Lost baggage is mundane. This happens all day, every day. This bag is nothing special and will be treated as such. Maybe it’ll be found, perhaps it won’t. The airline will compensate the customer. This is not a big deal.
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Overreact: The customer service agent is acutely aware our flyer has (probably) never lost a bag. There may be things in that bag that hold sentimental value. This is a massively negative emotional experience.

Notice the options are based on who is at the center: An underreaction is about the customer service rep. An overreaction is about the flyer.

Based on the options, how would our flyer respond:

Underreacting Customer Service: most people… RAGE.
How dare they act so blasé. Our flyer is exhausted and emotionally distraught. Now they’re stuck in a foreign city. Where do you even buy new underwear here? This sucks.
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Overreacting Customer Service: most people… calm down.
This service rep is acting like a delayed bag is the end of the world. No one died. It’s only underwear. I can buy that somewhere nearby. And the airline will cover new clothes until my bag arrives.

The above is based on Reverse Negative Selling, popularized by Sandler Training. And possibly the worst-named sales techniques.

Reverse Negative Selling

In conversations, each person plays a part.

Reverse Negative Selling is the idea that those parts constantly swing from positive to negative, negative to positive. Each person plays their role based on the last person to talk.

In our airline example:

An underreacting airline service rep is positive. The passenger plays the negative role, and the whole situation escalates.
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An overreacting airline service rep is negative. The passenger plays the positive role, and the whole situation de-escalates.

When you combine these roles with “sellers tell bald-faced lies, buyers speak God’s honest truth,” you’ll notice sellers should speak less and be negative. Then, buyers will be positive, speaking highly of their impending purchase.

To make this work, when your buyers say anything positive… drop a “really bomb.”

The Really Bomb

A “Really Bomb” is when a seller hears a positive sentiment and responds negatively. This encourages the buyer to be positive.

The structure is:

*Really?*, *Others have said*, *Prompt*, *Silence*.

For example:

Really? Others have said they don’t like our interface. What do you like about it? silence

The technique is all about delivery, not the words.

  • *Really?* should be an exclamation of surprise and slightly louder than the rest of the words.
  • *Others have said* is vague, generic, and short.
  • *Prompt* needs to relate to what they just said. It encourages the buyer to keep talking.
  • *Silence* is as it sounds. Stop talking.

NOTE: you might be afraid of *Others have said* and how it promotes a potential negative. However, being negative allows the buyer to continue being positive.

When you drop a “Really Bomb,” your buyers will start convincing you they need to buy your product.

Examples:

Buyer: “I love this interface.”
Seller: “Really? The last people I spoke to complained about it. What do you love?”
Buyer: “That feature is super interesting. I can see how we would use it.”
Seller: “Really? When I pointed that out on a call last week, they weren’t fans. Why do you find it interesting?”
Buyer: “This is really good.”
Seller: “Really? I had a feeling you didn’t like it at all. What’s so good about it?”

When you get “really bombs” right, you’ll have to hold back your laughter as it’s so much fun. When you get it wrong, you come across as rude.

I suggest role-playing 10-15 times with a colleague to ensure your delivery is vital.


Until next time,
Scott Cowley

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